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A Glimpse into MBA.

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Posted by Zabi | Posted on 10:12

When I was asked by Kshitiz to write an article for the newsletter I was shocked and elated at the same time. I was in doubt whether my style of writing is apt for a newsletter. I have experience of writing goofy stuff on a personal blog but a Newsletter sounded far too serious an activity. But the idea of getting published for the first time was scintillating.

Out of habit I started my task with googling “How to write a newsletter” and was appalled at the complexity of the task. Then I real- ised sometimes conventions should be given amiss to make room for creativity. I decided to follow my heart, so here comes my first ever article that should hopefully appear in a newsletter.

"What are you doing these days?"

"MBA‟

"Ohh Good. Which institute?"

"Goa Institute of Management"

"From Goa?"

"No dude it‟s in Himachal Pradesh. What do you expect?"

" mean how can you study in a place like Goa? I am sure you are having more fun than study there, right?"

"No Man. I am having more study that is fun.”

I am quite sure many of us have had conversations like this which are always irritating. Infact, when I first heard of our college, Goa Institute of Management, my initial focus was only on the first word „GOA‟. I was far too excited about the place than anything else. It seemed more like a place for vacation than education, but a bit of research on the credentials of GIM changed my perception that it actually can be a place for both.

When you land in Goa, the first thing you realize is the air about the place. Your adrenaline levels fall down and the first thing you feel like doing is to hit a beach and chill down. They particularly use a term to define this state; it‟s called “Susegaad”. I think for first few days in GIM you will be akin to it but it‟s more like a silence before the storm. Adding to it the serenity of GIM Sanquilem campus is something unique and makes you realise the beauty of GOA is not just about its beaches.

You will be introduced to different concepts that are unique to a PGDM course. Class Participation is one such concept. You are supposed to contribute to the discussion in the class, of course in a productive manner and marks are given for the same. You may find it a bit difficult to understand the concept if you are from the science background. You are generally used to learning the fun- damentals in class which are not supposed to be questioned and you have the tendency to take the word of the professor on any concept. But MBA is not just a science. Every concept/fundamental you learn here is based on assumptions and the situation in which you apply them. You should be able to thoroughly understand, analyse and preconceive every possible scenario to be able to apply a concept. Also there is ample scope of discovering new ideas in each class which are not taught in books. So this necessitates CP.

Many find it difficult to do CP at least initially. You will have a clear thought lingering in your mind and as soon as it comes out of your mouth it turns into gibberish. Give it time you‟ll get better at it. For beginners, I suggest you ask rational doubts that might clear your head instead of trying to give great ideas in the class. Most importantly, first pay attention in class, CP is definitely secon- dary.

Do not ever attempt DCP (Desperate Class Participation) for the sake of marks like stating the obvious pretending you have dis- covered a radically fresh perspective. Such people use their mastery of English language to create rational sounding B.S which is devoid of any logic. Your batch mates will be merciless in crushing you for wasting their time and it rarely happens inside the class. There are some subjects in which you do not have marks for CP which are mostly technical in nature. Understand the hint, the time of the Prof is extremely valuable in such classes, the more you waste time the less you learn.

You‟ll then be introduced to the concept of Group Work. This is definitely going to be one of the worst experiences that will teach you some great lessons. I initially thought group work was easier because I have the experience of handing a small team for a few months at my earlier organization. But here it is a different ball game. Everyone here is an equal to you. You cannot expect every- body to listen to you and do what you want them to unless you convince them with inscrutable (sounding) logic. What is common sense to you is sometimes Greek and Latin to the other person.

Once in a group, you will discover some destructive characteristics (i.e. some might be extremely egoistic, some may be extremely lazy) in every person you considered normal before which will affect the output of the group. I myself have such characteristics (obviously I am not going to mention them here), but you need to understand each person and figure out the best way to work with him. This kind of stuff cannot be learned through gyaan but practice.

Then there are Presentations, Student committee Work (If you become a JCC fortunately or unfortunately), Pro- jects, open/closed book exams and then there is Goa. You need to figure out a way to balance all this and please don‟t drop Goa out of the equation. Try to make the two years you spend here the best time of your life both in terms of learning and fun.

P.S: The views I expressed in this article are based on my experiences. I do not intend to force any of my views on anybody and you might very well form counter ones. In whichever way I just hope it betters your perspective on the Life @ a Management institute.



My Soul Speaking..

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Posted by Zabi | Posted on 06:48

Dear Zabi..


This is your soul speaking. Since you have totally lost the sense of rationality i have decided to impart you with some gyaan in attempt to wake you up into the world of reality so that you can see things with clarity.


You are suffering from a disease called Mediocrity... That is what surrounds  most of  the people unless you are an exceptional creature with extraordinary merit. It is ubiquitous. There are many who get used to it. It is not really bad but it is not really good either especially if you are a dreamer. If you have hopes of making it big. If want to stand apart from the crowd. Mediocrity to such people seems like a sickness with no cure. It imparts a deadly suffering onto the soul. Many a time the cause of your suffering ought to be this sick disease of mediocrity. How to get rid of it.? I have put much thought and seem to come up with a reasonable explanation.





Is there a panacea. Some say, one needs talent to beat mediocrity  but the worst part about talent is you are either born with it or without it. It cannot be inculcated no matter how much one tries seems to be the universal accepted belief. Or is it really?


Hmmmmm.. Let us think it this way, is every talented person exceptional?Can every talented person beat mediocrity
Well.. Have you ever seen a person with loads of talent wasting his life doing things far below his abilities. Well if you did then it goes to proves that Talent cannot be the only factor that can make some one exceptional.So one can easily understand that it is not just talent that can get you out of mediocrity.


Then is it hard work that can get you out of mediocrity? well, look around you. Consider a few hardworking persons u know. How many of them are successful in their careers or life? In a minute you will realize all of them are. Even if you find an exception here and there I'd bet u'd never notice a failure in the hardworking lot.


A radical mind amongst you might think of an example of a laborer working in fields who might work harder than most of us but still leads less than a mediocre life. Well laborer's effort goes into training his body not mind. when I say hard work I talk about stressing the intellectual abilities of your mind. Simply put your success in today's world is judged by the might of your intellect not physical strength and a laborer by any measure is way too short of it.


Then what is it that can beat mediocrity?


Since talent cannot be inculcated it clearly leaves us with hard work. But where do you direct you hardwork. Every person in this world is awarded with some talent or the other, many times a mix of various talents. If you direct your hard work on honing that talent to develop some necessary skill which you can sell in this world.. Bingo.. you have made it out of the gutter of mediocrity.


But there is a catch. Talent has a small role to play here if not crucial. The more talented you are the sooner you'll make it out of the gutter. If you are not one of those gifted with loads of talent, well you need one extra ingredient along with talent to make it big. Lots of patience. you might make it slow but be damn sure you'll make it big. perseverance should be the magic word for you.


By now you must have realized that I am preaching the benefits of perseverance and hard work. Everyone know this out of their common sense. But when it comes to implementing this commonsensical thing one will realize common sense is not so common. Well there is a very simple way,


In your life, all things that you do, every choice that you make can simply be divided into two categories,


1.The things that add value to your life.
2.The things that deprive the value of your life.


when i say value i don't mean something that is entirely materialistic. things like love, friendship, happiness also add value to your life. It will not take an Aristotle to understand which thing is what sort.


Just stop things like procrastinating, hesitating etc. which just don't add any value, rather take the value out of your life. Any task you do from the start to the end of your day can be realized in terms of value added to your life. Just follow the simple principle and you shall be on the right path.


P.S: Next time you are doing face book.. just think how much of value it is taking out of your life. Does reading every stupid status update adding to your happiness or frustration? Does checking out a random chick with a perverse eye gives you the warmth of love? Does a stupid FB  application which says some thing like 'find out with whom you are gonna have sex with' is really doing you any good.. hmmmm think.. damn it..



Oh Dearest.. smile..

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Posted by Zabi | Posted on 04:59


You know it, don’t you; the mystery about your eyes, there is something very special about them. Your eyes are exceptionally beautiful no doubt, but it is in the expression of those eyes lies the real charm.

When you look at me, which you do very rarely, it feels as if you touch my heart through your eyes. I feel the strength of your stare simulating a reaction so strong from the bottom of my heart that it is just irresistible. I love the inquisitiveness of your look. You must know that it is impossible not to fall for the kind of look you give sometimes but it takes great strength to pretend not to have fallen for your look.

There is one other thing about you which deserves a special mention, your smile. O god that is one heck of a charming smile. It is the kind of smile that can make the day of any desperate soul. When I look at you I always hope to instigate that charming smile of yours which has got the potential to light up any heart. But rarely do I get lucky enough to experience the charm of it.

When I saw you for the very first time, I knew you are one gal who had the full potential to make or break my heart. Wishing for the former I tried every measure to seek the least of your attention but it was of no avail. Over the days I realised that the inquisitive stare and the charming smile you held and every bit your soul was reserved for certain somebody. I did not want to believe it first but my infatuation failed to hide the truth for long. Though it was not exactly a heart break it caused a bit of pain. I moved on, thinking whatever makes you happy should not make me feel worse if there is any truth to my feelings. I was a gratified soul as long as I got to see you smile.

Your image in my heart did not fade for years and it always the held the expression of that charming smile until recently. Now my soul failed to remain at ease for the reasons that you are acutely aware of. The steadiness in your stare which I so much admired once is now replaced by a desperate longing. The beautiful smile of yours does now seem like a mere effort of your lips. Where is that charming gal with the cheerful smile that I once very much admired?

I want to see you out of the pain but only person who knows how to come of it is you. I wish I could be there to help but I am too far away and there is so less I know about you. Relieve your eyes of the longing and let the charm of your smile return.



Adios Ribandar

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Posted by Zabi | Posted in , | Posted on 07:12

Year: 2007
Month: June
Route: Panjim to St Xavier’s Basallica

6 toursits from hyderabad on 3 rented bikes and.on one of the bikes,

Rider: Wow. Dude what a ride
Pillion: Seriously what a ride!!
Rider: Reminds me of the lanes of the game Road Rash.. Look at those smooth curves man. No other curves gave me better riding pleasure than these.
Pillion: haha. Dude! For a minute Take your eyes off the road and look around you. This river along the road, the artistic beauty of the houses, and the whole environment around here is just breath taking. People living here are on an a eternal vacation. Imagine living in a place like this. Seems fantastic, Isn’t it
Rider: Ya right..In your dreams.



Year:2010
Month: July


The pillion got placed in GIM. with the previous notions of goan beauty, He Came to Sanquilem (pronounced saankh-lee in local accent). He got a shock of his life to see the bare minimum campus at saank-lee amidst the worst of monsoon season.  Felt terrible when he was denied a place at the hostel due to the pending construction work and was one of the few who were directed to stay at the old campus at a place called Ribandar. Feeling wet and cheated he packed his bags to move on to his new temporary destination. On the way back he realised that the lanes seemed vaguely familiar. He knew the old campus was on the banks of Mandovi River but he never thought it would be the very same place he admired 3 years back. His depression faded and mood turned better. Finally his dream was realised.


Ribandar campus, a heritage site, atypical of Portugal style construction painted in yellow. It was maternity hospital for decades where many goans, infact some of my class mates were born. It must have felt really spooky to study at a place where you were actually born in. I wonder if some of them actually knew the very rooms they were born in. Different sections of ribandar campus still retain their old names. Boys used to stay in hostels called OT-1(operation theatre) and Morgue.


I really wondered how people staying in morgue must have felt, I heard some rumours of ghosts but they hardly seemed credible. I think if you die in a place as beautiful as this your soul should remain at peace and there is hardly any reason to haunt people.


(to be continued.. This is my last day at ribandar and this article is my tribute to the place and the wonderful experiences this place has left me with, I want to finsh this off badly but there is hardly anytime left to pack my bags. Can’t wait to write the rest of the article..)
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Image Courtesy: Kalpak Iyer (The Photographer.)